Thursday, March 8, 2012

"BEGINILAH CARAKU MENCINTAIMU"

Ada kekasih yg membuktikan cintanya
dengan jutaan kalimat ,pujian dan
rayuan...
Adapula dengan sikap nan
penuh kasih,
Tak sedikit dengan pengorbanan yg
meluluh lantakkan harga diri...
Ada pula dengan menguras tenaga
dan materi...

Namun bagiku...aku mencintaimu
dengan menundukkan wajahku
padamu, bukan karena ku ingin
berpaling darimu,
Tapi karena ku ingin menjaga
pandanganmu dari panah-panah iblis.

Ku mencintaimu dengan tidak
melemah lembutkan suaraku padamu,
bukan karena aku ingin menyakitimu
namun karena aku ingin menjaga
hatimu dari bisikan syaitan yg menipu...

Ku mencintaimu dengan menjauh
darimu, bukan karena aku membencimu,
namun karena ku ingin menjagamu
dari khalwat yg menjebak...

Ku mencintaimu dengan menjaga
dirimu dan diriku,
Menjaga kesucianmu dan kesucianku,
Menjaga kehormatanmu dan
kehormatanku,
Menjaga kebeningan hatimu dan hatiku...

Cinta...
Tak mengapa saat ini qita jauh, karena
kelak Allah yg akan menyatukan qita
dalam ikatan sucinya..
Karena itu jauh lebih berarti,
Jauh lebih abadi,
Karena aku yakin janji Allah adalah pasti,

Wanita yg baik untuk laki-laki yg baik.
Seperti inilah ku mencintaimu dengan
menjaga kesucian diri, jiwa dan hatiku
hanya untuk ku persembahkan
padamu kelak.

Oleh karena itu cinta...
Jaga kesucian cintamu juga hanya untukku.
Ya Rabb..
Pada-MU ku titipkan cintaku pada
nya...Aamiin...
(copas dari temen umi yg masih single)
 
 

Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Kata2 Bijak...

The Quran is like a compass, it always points the believer in the right direction.
Whenever you're alone, remind yourself that Allah has sent everybody away so that it's only you and Him.
Tak seorangpun akan memberi apa yg kamu mau, kamu harus berusaha wujudkan mimpimu. Jangan pernah menyerah, atau kamu kan menyesal nantinya.
Hidup ini bukan hanya mencari seseorang yang terbaik buatmu. Tapi juga kamu yang harus berusaha menjadi yang terbaik.
Life is drama. Acting well and you'll be fine in your life.
Mereka yang tahu cara bersyukur adalah mereka yang bisa menikmati keindahan dunia dan arti kebahagiaan hidup.
 Selalu memikirkan yg terbaik maka kita akan menciptakan yg terbaik pula.
Never blame any day in your life. Good days give you happiness, bad days give you experience, worst days give you a lesson.
Tak perlu bersusah payah untuk membalas dendam, cukup maafkan setiap kesalahan. Kerana memaafkan adalah pembalasan yang TERBAIK.
Think twice before saying something; malaikat are recording everything.
Time is the coin of your life. It is the only coin you have, and only you can determine how it will be spent.
Perbuatan adalah cerminan isi hati. Jika hati dipenuhi kebaikan, maka sikap dan tindakan akan baik, pun sebaliknya.
Don't do something permanently stupid just because you're temporarily upset.
Relationships do not need promises, terms, and conditions. It just needs two wonderful people; one who can trust and one who can understand.
Don't expect things to happen. It's better to feel surprised than to feel disappointed.
Surround yourself with people who are for you not against you.It's not about the quantity of friends, it's about the quality of your friends.
Copying my work will not make you smarter & better than me. It will only make you look like ME, but never like YOUrself.
There are 2 things that hurt the most : 
1. Wrong expectation,
 2. Wrong person.
People come, people go. Some say "Hi", some say "Bye". But God was there, still there, & will always be there.
Get close to Allah first before getting close to anyone else. Allah without a man is still Allah..but a man without Allah is nothing.
 It's not diamonds, not flowers, it's TIME - a truly great gift you can give to your loved one, because the memories of time spend together is Priceless, subhanalloh.
It's not diamonIt's not diamonds, not flowers, it's TIME - a truly great gift you can give to your loved one, because the memories of time spend together is Pricelessds, not flowers, it's TIME - a truly great gift you can give to your loved one, because the memories of time spend together is Priceless
 
 
 

Sunday, March 4, 2012

The Interview

Kalaupun sudah pernah baca, anggap saja untuk mengingatkan kembali, nilai 2 yang baik dalam menjalani hidup

Dari milis tetangga:


The Interview

One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company.


He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made the last decision.


The director discovered from the CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never had a year when he did not score.


The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "none".


The director asked, " Was it your father who paid for your school fees?" The youth answered, "My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.


The director asked, " Where did your mother work?" The youth answered, "My mother worked as clothes cleaner. The director requested the youth to show his hands. The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.


The director asked, " Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?" The youth answered, "Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.


The director said, "I have a request. When you go back today, go and clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.*


The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the young man.


The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother shivered when they were cleaned with water.


This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fee. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his graduation, academic excellence and his future.


After finishing the cleaning of his mother hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother.


That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.


Next morning, the youth went to the director's office.


The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, asked: "Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"


The youth answered, "I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes'


The Director asked, " please tell me your feelings."


The youth said, Number 1, I know now what is appreciation. Without my mother, there would not the successful me today. Number 2, by working together and helping my mother, only I now realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done. Number 3, I have come to appreciate the importance and value of family relationship.


The director said, " This is what I am looking for to be my manager.

I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life. You are hired.

Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and as a team. The company's performance improved tremendously.


A child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, would develop "entitlement mentality" and would always put himself first. He would be ignorant of his parent's efforts. When he starts work, he assumes that every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager, he would never know the sufferings of his employees and would always blame others. For this kind of people, who may be good academically, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement. He will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying the kid instead?*


You can let your kid live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person.


The most important thing is your kid learns how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learns the ability to work with others to get things done.